Loebe reminds us to "just relax" -- that by shutting ourselves off from the new people in our lives from fear of the past -- we end up failing in the areas we want to succeed in. At the end of the day, you just have to see where life takes you.
Interestingly, for a video like this, we don't see Loebe attempting to engage in a romantic relationship (that's how i read it, at least.) Instead, we see Loebe palling around her home base of Austin and enjoying life by herself. You have to let go of the ghosts at some point, but that doesn't mean you need a romantic partner(s) to complete you.
Rebecca Loebe -- Official, Facebook